There are times when everything seems so difficult to achieve and we face a lot of hardships, meeting by criticism and people trying their very best breaking us and bringing us down. Gossiping and judgmental comments are habits that a lot of people possess.
We all face hardships in our lives but that does not mean that we continue to beat ourselves. We should not let people’s words affect us because people will always talk no matter what we do. To strengthen our guard in front of such people we need to have confidence in ourselves and not allow the words of such people to affect us in any way.
Unfortunately for a lot of us, we listen to the judgments of other people. They lead us to only focus on our negatives and we end up ignoring all of the positives that we possess.
It is usually at such points in life we believe whatever people talk about us, we degrade ourselves and consider ourselves nothing but a loser, someone who doesn’t deserve anything ,a complete failure.
Bringing yourself up again can be tough but it isn’t impossible because we are being able to achieve anything in life.
Always remind yourself that, you don’t have to go through your struggle alone, when feeling low about yourself, the first thing that you should do is calling someone you love and who is really close to you, talk to them about the conflicting feelings that you have been feeling about yourself, because most of the time that nice chat with them is literally the best remedy. This can be your mentor or coach, your sister or brother, your parents (it is always mothers because we all have a special bond with our mothers), ….
Make additions all the way up (try new ingredients, new tricks,) and feel happy about what you’ve accomplished every single day. Because your worth it!
Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re not good, spend time doing something you enjoy,it will help you relax and bring a positive change.
Love always,
Blandine
BLANDINE LA MILD 